To get a man with
erectile dysfunction (ED) excited, you should focus on closeness, communication, and other ways to feel good. Encourage honest conversation so that you can understand what the other person wants. To get aroused, explore erogenous zones outside of the sexual area through erotic touch, rubs, or kisses. Try different types of sexual activity that don't just involve penetration, like oral sex, shared masturbation, or using sex toys. To spark the mind and increase desire, use dreams, role-playing, or sexual reading. Set up a calm and comfy space where there is no pressure or expectation of success. To boost confidence and lower worry, use positive encouragement and support. Don't forget that togetherness and familiarity aren't just physical acts; being emotionally close can be just as rewarding. Getting help from doctors or sex therapists can give you extra support and ideas for how to handle closeness and pleasure when you have ED.